Listen Before You Decide
“He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him. The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeketh knowledge.”
Proverbs 18:13, 15 (KJV)
Information is everywhere, but wisdom requires more than collecting facts. Proverbs warns that answering before hearing is folly. The same chapter says wise ears seek knowledge. Discernment begins with humility: admit what you do not yet know.
A supervisor hears one complaint and disciplines someone without asking questions. A parent believes the loudest child. A church accepts a familiar person’s version while overlooking the newcomer, the poor person, or someone whose disability makes communication slower. Speed can look decisive while producing injustice.
Kingdom-centered wisdom slows down enough to hear the matter. It tests reports, welcomes correction, notices whose voice is missing, and refuses to let prejudice fill gaps in evidence. Listening does not mean avoiding a decision. It means deciding responsibly, with truth, prayer, and people’s welfare in view.
Before you respond today, separate what you know from what you assume. Ask a clarifying question. Hear more than one perspective. Then choose the action that agrees with God’s Word and reflects Christlike integrity.
Walk It Out
Delay one nonurgent decision long enough to verify the facts, hear an overlooked voice, and pray before you answer.
Prayer
Father, make us teachable and careful with people. Expose our assumptions, govern our words, and give us wisdom to hear truth and act with justice, courage, and compassion. In Jesus’ name, amen.
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